Who died and appointed you to judge me?

Last time I checked - that is GOD's job.

Life is filled with judgement from people in our lives.

And I apologize in advance, because I am the FIRST to admit that I am writing this from a place of frustration and total outrage - due to events occuring in the past couple of weeks.

The thing is - some of you really need to re-examine the sharpness of your tounges - the looseness of your lips - and from the place which you come......last time I checked - none of you are GOD.

The hardest thing is - that no one can truly walk in your shoes - no one can truly know your heart - and your intentions.

I know what the word "Blog" means (WeB Log). But today I am going to re-define it as "Blowing Loads Of Gross" - out of my mind and onto a web page.

#1 - When I say that my kid is autistic and really hard to deal with - a lot of people don't REALLY understand what that means. A lot of people think I am being overly dramatic and exagerating about her behavior.

Well - you are cordially invited to spend a weekend with her at my house and listen to at least 24 hours of whining (that means 12 hours per day).

You are also invited to sit through 6 different therapy sessions a week for her - and hear her scream half the time.

Oh - and I can't forget to invite you to all the doctor's appointments - and specialists who tell us that she's "fine" - or even worse - "here is another specialist - go see them now"

People - it will make you - coooookalooooo - forget to eat (and then eat Brusters for dinner) - forget to take care of yourself and possibly go insane altogether.


#2 - You may also not approve of my decision to vaccinate according to the AMA's schedule - and to never again give my child a flu shot.
Please refer back to #1 - and try walking in my shoes.

#3 - No one has the right to judge me and my family on how we spend our money on ourselves or our daughter. Even if you are related to us - you really don't know how much we make - and how much we spend on our daughter's medical care.


#4 - On the subject of me being "too skinny" - well those of you who are so "worried" (which by the way I think is total BS. You aren't worried nor do you care abour me). I do the best I can - and I am 134 pounds. Last time I checked - that was far from anorexic.
On the same note - if you are truly concerned for me then why the hell don't you just talk to me? My husband is the wrong person to have the conversation with.
How would you like it if I went up to your husband and expressed my "concern" for the fact that you look like you ate an entire stuffed turkey for lunch?

#5- My sincere aplogies to anyone reading this who has done none of the above - and my sincere thank-you's to those who are supportive and loving to me and my family.

The end.